Making New Friends at Camp (Parent Tips)
Summer camp is one of the best places for kids to meet new friends, but walking into a group of strangers can feel intimidating. Parents can do a lot to help children feel confident about socializing and making connections at camp. A little preparation before the first day can go a long way.
1. Talk About Meeting New People
Explain that most campers arrive not knowing anyone. Let your child know it is normal to feel shy at first. Encourage them to:
Say hello and introduce themselves to another camper.
Ask simple questions such as “What activity are you most excited for?”
Look for someone who might also be standing alone.
Normalizing these small steps helps reduce the fear of starting a conversation.
2. Practice Social Skills at Home
Role-play simple introductions or joining a group. Take turns pretending to be a new friend. Practice:
Saying their name clearly and asking for someone else’s name.
Joining a game already in progress by asking “Can I play too?”
Complimenting others: “I like your drawing” or “That’s a cool shirt.”
This kind of practice can make first interactions feel natural.
3. Focus on Kindness and Inclusion
Talk about being welcoming to others. Some kids feel nervous when they do not know anyone, so helping your child include others builds confidence too. Encourage them to:
Sit next to someone who looks unsure.
Offer to share supplies or help with an activity.
Be patient with different personalities.
Kindness makes friendships easier for everyone.
4. Encourage Openness to New Activities
Kids often bond when they try something new together. Remind your child to:
Join in even if an activity is unfamiliar.
Stay positive and cheer others on.
Ask counselors for help if they feel left out.
Trying new things can be a natural way to meet friends.
5. Prepare for Ups and Downs
Friendships at camp can change day to day. Let your child know it is okay if they feel lonely at first or if groups shift. Encourage them to:
Keep trying to talk to different kids.
Ask a counselor for help connecting with others.
Focus on having fun rather than worrying about making one perfect friend.
6. Stay Supportive at Home
Ask open-ended questions after camp: “Who did you sit with at lunch?” or “What game did you play today?” Show interest without pressuring them to have instant best friends. Celebrate small steps like saying hello or joining a group.
Bottom Line
Making friends takes time, but you can help your child feel confident and open to new relationships. CampSorted helps families find programs where kids can connect and thrive, and your support can make those first friendships feel easier and more fun.